Without Maid

Today is my 1st day {weekday} withouth maid.
Have to take the mop that I've left behind more than 2 years.
After mopping the double storey house my whole body pain.
I think this is a good exercise too....hehe.
Too long didn't do house chores now have to catch up...sighs.

All of them still haven't use to it {without maid}

Especially Nicholas,that day we send her off to airport.
Nicholas told me this: mommy one of my family is missing.

At night he even act like usual asking "Kakak I Want My Milk"


Then I told him kakak go home already,then only he realize it again.

Stupid or Soft Heart

I can't stand it anymore have to let {write} it out,if not I think I'll be crazy someday.
Cyndi knows about this,she said I'm stupid.

Some of you gals had read about:
"They want him {Ken} back for a reason"
And this is a part of it about my ex.
When he ran away he get to know a Thailand {wah kiu}
girl, got married and gave birth a baby girl.

At that time,he called me ask for my help cause he had not enough money to pay for deliver fees and medical fees when his wife in labour.
So I lend him some money.

Every year of CNY he came back to visit his mom.
1st two years is okay{financial}.
At that time his living was fine,he doing a small business selling mix vege rice {chap fhan} in Thailand.

Past few year things change every time CNY he came back he will asked for my help said that not enough money to give his mom and never buy new clothes this and that.
HA,I help him again not much few hundreds.

And one day he called me and said business no good hard for living.
He want to try his luck here again in KL.

So he came back to find a job.
His mother ask him why he came back.
He told his mom that I will operate a coffee shop and I request him to help me.

His brother won't let him stay at his place.
He had no work at that time so I help him again.

To work at air-cond shop,take some advance to rent a place to stay,
Well some problem arise between him and my sis so he quit and find a new job as a driver.

He told me about his new job is very good.
Have a place to stay no need to pay for the rent anymore so he can save much more money.

Then I said good is nice to hear that. Hope that he can really save some money & pay some money back to me.

Ok,this part is finish, am I stupid or soft heart?

Just say what you want to, no need to "hak hey"if you want to shoot just shoot ok,hahaha.

Maid 180 degree change!

As I mention before that my maid go back to Indonesia on March.

Then my hubby and sis got health problem so me and hubby request her to extend few months,she agreed.

Times flies so fast,next week she will go back.
In these few months,all my family members and friends realize she had changed.

A bit lazy doing house chores do it fast and simple "chin chai - kau kei".

Sometimes show her long black face I can see that and tantrum throw things "fatt pei hei" this she don't dare to do it in front of me.

All these I still can stand it.

Last few weeks Nicholas started to complained that kakak beat him,when I heard that I really get mad and angry.

I asked her what had happened why Nicholas said you eat him?
Her reaction and her face suddenly change {scared}and explained this and that.

I really want to scold her "gau gau" at that moment.
2nd thought if I scold her I worry she beat Nicholas harder and I can't imagine what happen next.

After that incident I keep an eyes on her.

When she agreed to extended, I've made up my mind I will give her more bonus or see what she want to buy I'll buy it for her.

Now she is 180 degree change different person.
Don't know how or what shall I to do.

Please Pray For Him

Long story so I make it short.
One of my family close friend { we treat him as a family member}.
Had brain tumor {huge} one because of the tumor his condition is bad,he can't recognize people sometimes his memories jump here and there {past and few present} sometimes he act like a toddler jump here and there.

On the 1st day I visited him,he been tied up both his hand looking at him and can't recognize us my tears keep dropping.

He call Jacky Au Gee Hock, 59 years old.
He will have a operation next week.
Dr told us that he worry Jacky can't stand the operation because his heart and health is weak.
The operation take more than 10 hours.

Please pray for him.

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Dr told us that if the tumor {cancer} is harmless,he can live more than 2 or 3 years only.

My First Time

My first time admit hospital beside delivered my sons. My first time sat on a wheelchair.

In pain but still have to smile....keke I had stomachache for 3 days and visited 3 doctors. The last doc I had visited I had show him all the medicine that I had taken. Then he check on me and suggest had to admit hospital immediately for ultrasound,then he wrote me a letter. When we reach the hospital the emergency wards doc asked me to admit and the nurse want to "cucuk" me.
I rejected I said the doc write the letter is for doing the ultrasound only I told them I want to talk to my hubby. Because of my stubborn and scare then the doc said will pass me to specialist. O oh when the specialist check on me press here and there asked so many question then he said have to admit my tears keeps falling{shame on me}because I'm so scare of injection. Doc said have to take x'ray do ultrasound this and that. So yesterday I took my first x'ray. Some photos before and waiting for x'ray...... My poor hubby


Share in a bed. After doing all the things they said the x'ray not so clear have to suck a tube in side my throat to check clearly.I forgot what they call that. Interesting part,this morning the doc come and tell me that the machine is out of order so I can't do it. Ask me did I want to go home,I hurry answer him YES. While waiting for my hubby I was thinking feel like being cheat about the machine. How come they know it out of order so late they should keep on checking at the machine. Hope you all understand what I'm writting cause I'm in pain when doing this blog.

Thank You Vivian

Thank you so much,Vivian for sending me this vcd and email me the Step by Step on Photo Impact.

This is my mother's day gift from you Vivian.

I will try it later,don't you regret I will keep bothering you if I don't understand how it works...hehehe.


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My Poor Darling

My poor darling is sick high fever....
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still have to work at home of course. Yesterday his hand numb again he hardly get to sleep so I sat beside him massage his his hand and let him slept well....

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hope he recover soon. Sometime when my kids or hubby get sick I hope I am the one who sick cause I no need to work or go to school.
Now he take his medicine already and "guai guai" rest.